Believe it or not, figuring out what’s good about people is a great past-time as well. It’s challenging, satisfying and makes you feel better about the world. It’s the gourmet meal of human relationships.
There are always people in our life who cause us to yearn for a delete button to use on them. It could be our child’s principal or some politician or your own family. Instead of just letting them drive you nuts over and over, make yourself look for something you could genuinely like about the person. Turn it into a game if you need to. Some people need you to think of multiple things to like about them just so you can stand their existence. Well, guess what? They aren’t going anywhere, so you might as well learn to like something about them!